Top 10 Things to Know if You’re Moving to France

As an expat living in France, I’ve spent decades helping North Americans relocate to France, guiding our clients on everything from logistics to cultural adjustments. With nearly 30 years of experience, I understand the major factors and subtle nuances of moving to this unique and fascinating country. Whether it’s practical advice, cultural insights, logistical tips, or personal life coaching, my team and I aspire to provide our clients with a smoother, less stressful, and more fulfilling moving experience.

Here are my top ten things to know before packing your bags and heading to France:

#1. It’s Not as Expensive as You Think

A common misconception among Americans is that living in France—particularly in places like Paris or the Riviera—is beyond their financial reach. The truth is you can live in France for about half the amount of money it costs to live in the U.S. and have a much healthier, happier, and richer life.

While cities like Paris can seem pricey compared to smaller French towns, the overall cost of living in France is often much lower than in the United States. For example, the healthcare system is not only of the highest quality but also incredibly affordable, and public transportation is so efficient that owning a car is often unnecessary. These savings can dramatically improve your quality of life and cost of living, especially when paired with the benefits of cultural and social opportunities in urban centers.

#2. Money Doesn’t Buy Happiness

In France, the focus on quality of life far outweighs the pursuit of wealth, a stark contrast to the U.S. mindset.

Being a socialist democracy, money is not what buys you happiness in France. It’s about quality of life—healthcare, community, and culture—rather than accumulating wealth.

Instead of being driven by profit and material possessions, the French prioritize time with family and friends, cultural enrichment, and personal well-being. This shift in perspective can be liberating for those moving from the U.S., where the rat race often dominates daily life. France encourages a healthier work-life balance and a focus on what truly matters.

The streets of Aix-en-Provence — A typical cafe scene in the St Germain district of central Paris.Photo courtesy of iStock/georgeclerk.

#3. Learning French Is Helpful but Not Essential

The language barrier is often a significant concern for Americans considering a move to France. However, it’s not an insurmountable challenge. While learning French is tough, it’s not absolutely necessary—especially in urban areas. Most people under the age of 40 speak English fairly fluently, so you can usually get by without too much difficulty.

That said, learning some basic French phrases will go a long way in making daily interactions smoother and more enjoyable. Language classes, apps like Duolingo, and immersion in French culture can help newcomers pick up conversational French over time. While not mandatory, making an effort to learn the language demonstrates respect for French culture and helps with integration.

#4. The Cultural Divide Is the Biggest Challenge

Moving abroad is more than just a physical relocation—it’s a cultural transformation. The French and Americans are opposites in many ways, largely due to their legal systems. The Napoleonic Code is based on what’s allowed, while English law focuses on what’s forbidden. This fundamental difference shapes everything, from behavior to bureaucracy.

This cultural divide influences everything from how people interact socially to how they approach problem-solving. While Americans tend to value efficiency and individualism, the French prioritize tradition, formality, and community. Embracing these differences can take time, but it’s essential for building meaningful relationships and adapting to life in France.

#5. Forget the Fairytale—Embrace Urban Life

Many Americans romanticize the idea of moving to the French countryside, envisioning a tranquil life in a picturesque stone house. While that can be the right move for some people, it can also be isolating, expensive, and impractical, especially if you don’t speak fluent French.

A Typical Cafe scene in the St Germain District of Central Paris — The streets of Aix-en-Provence. Photo courtesy of iStock/Konstanttin.

Urban living in cities like Paris, Nice, or Aix-en-Provence offers numerous advantages, including access to public transportation, healthcare, cultural activities, and a thriving expat community. Unlike rural areas, cities make it easier to build a social network and integrate into French society. Urban life also eliminates the need for a car, reducing costs and encouraging healthier lifestyles through walking and public transit.

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#6. France Offers Incredible Healthcare

France’s healthcare system is world-renowned for its quality and affordability. And the benefits for expats are numerous. Healthcare in France is a right, not a privilege. Once you have a visa, you’re covered for up to 70% of your medical costs—and long-term illnesses are covered 100%.

This is a stark contrast to the U.S., where healthcare costs can be exorbitant. For retirees and families, France’s health system can be a game-changer, offering both financial relief and peace of mind. France’s healthcare system is consistently ranked among the best in the world, making it one of the most appealing aspects of living in the country.

The Old Port of Nice on the French Riviera. Photo courtesy of iStock/alxpin.

#7. Community Is Key

Building a support network is essential for a successful move, and I can’t stress enough the importance of community, especially for expats who may feel isolated at first. You need a community—whether expat or local—to navigate life in France. It’s the best way to integrate, share experiences, and get support.

Cities like Paris and Nice have established American and international communities, offering instant connections and a sense of belonging. These networks provide invaluable resources, from advice on navigating French bureaucracy to emotional support during the adjustment period.

#8. Do Your Homework

Preparation is crucial for a successful move to France. It’s important to understanding the process and plan ahead. I suggest watching webinars, reading books, and talking to professionals. Too many people jump in without understanding the process that can lead to costly mistakes.

Plus, France has specific rules and regulations regarding visas, taxes, and property ownership. Seeking professional advice and thoroughly researching these topics can save you time, money, and frustration.

#9. Let Go of Fear and Expectations

Fear of the unknown often holds people back from pursuing their dream of living in France, so I encourage a shift in mindset.

Fear is completely illusory—based on imagined futures that never happen. Replace expectations with hopes, and view your move as an adventure.

I also advise against clinging to unrealistic expectations, as they often lead to disappointment. Instead, approach the move with an open mind and a sense of curiosity. Adjusting to a new way of life may take time, but it’s an opportunity for personal growth and discovery.

#10. Professional Advice Is Non-Negotiable

If there’s one piece of advice I would emphasizes above all others, it’s the importance of seeking professional guidance if you’re serious about making the move. You don’t know what you don’t know. Seek advice from experts—whether tax advisors, immigration attorneys, or relocation specialists. It’s worth every penny.

The process of relocating to France involves complex legal, financial, and logistical considerations. Professionals can help you navigate these challenges, ensuring a smoother transition and avoiding costly mistakes.

I offer consultations to guide clients through every aspect of their move, from psychological readiness to practical steps. Relocating to France isn’t just about changing your address—it’s about transforming your life.

Whether you’re drawn to Parisian culture, the Mediterranean beauty of Nice, or the charm of Aix-en-Provence, each step of the journey offers opportunities to learn, grow, and embrace a new way of living.

With proper preparation, an open mind, and the right support, your move to France can be the start of an incredible adventure.

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New Orleans-born Adrian Leeds moved to Paris in 1994 and later founded the Adrian Leeds Group, the premier real estate agency for North Americans in France.