{"id":47975,"date":"2023-07-01T22:50:55","date_gmt":"2023-07-02T03:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.escapeartist.com\/?p=47975"},"modified":"2023-07-01T23:03:01","modified_gmt":"2023-07-02T04:03:01","slug":"im-not-ready-or-able-to-move-yet-what-can-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.escapeartist.com\/blog\/im-not-ready-or-able-to-move-yet-what-can-i-do\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m not ready or able to move yet. What can I do?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Believe me, I hear you on this one. Having two school-aged kids, my husband working in a location-dependent job, and various other life complications (ugh), we can\u2019t just up and leave. As much as, some days, I wish we could.<\/p>\n
But that\u2019s no reason to just throw in the towel. There is still a lot you can do to start the Plan B process without actually having to move right away.<\/p>\n
I addressed this similarly in my article called \u201cThe Steps I Took to Start Building My Plan B<\/a>\u201d, but that looked at things from a decision-making and implementation perspective, whereas in this article, we are going to discuss things from a preparation perspective.<\/p>\n The world can feel pretty crazy and frustrating some days and it can be tempting to bury your head in the sand and just give up. Holding on to hope and actually doing things that are real<\/em>, instead of worrying about things you have no control over, is vital to keeping your sanity.<\/p>\n So, let\u2019s talk about some of the steps you can take to prepare, even if you can\u2019t move right now, so, when the time comes, you are ready to go.<\/p>\n You need to get real with yourself about what you actually want from building a Plan B and eventually moving overseas. And what your motivations are for doing all this. That means asking yourself some tough questions.<\/p>\n These are just a few of the questions I\u2019ve asked myself as I\u2019ve considered my Plan B strategy. I think the hardest question is the first one, because I have to admit that part of my motivation is about running away from a country where I feel under threat by my government. Identifying this as a partial motivation means I need to be careful that I am planning properly and not making rash decisions.<\/p>\n Getting your spouse\u2019s buy-in is another crucial element that must be in place for moving forward with an offshore strategy. Any plans will be dead in the water if you don\u2019t include your significant other in the process. Luckily, you can\u2019t just up and move anyway, so you have the time to discuss with your spouse and, hopefully, get them on the same page.<\/p>\n Take the time to ask yourself the tough questions up front, and continually throughout the process. It will help to guide you in your decision making along the way.<\/p>\n I got into this in my previous article about this but it\u2019s definitely worth repeating. Research as much as possible so you know what your options are. There are so many free resources out there that cover practically every part of this whole Plan B process from start to finish. Some of the free resources I used were:<\/p>\n Once you have a little more clarity on where you want to focus your efforts, or maybe even just to gain clarity on where you should<\/em> focus your efforts, you may want to look at connecting with people who can answer any specific questions you have. This is where you may need to think about paying a little money in order to gain access to information and advice that is specific to you and your situation, or that is just more in-depth than what is available online for free. Some of the paid resources I used were:<\/p>\nAsk yourself the tough questions<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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