US
Servas Inc.
Enabling people of varying cultures
and outlooks to get to know and understand one another
by Richard
S. George
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a unique organization called Servas, travelers
can enjoy homestays and get to know people of many countries, while others
can serve as hosts to visitors from near and far. The objective of
Servas is to help build world peace, good will and understanding.
Both hosts and travelers have an opportunity to make deeper, more
personal contacts - particularly significant when the exchange is between
individuals of diverse cultures and backgrounds.
Compared with the experience of traveling
as a tourist, Servas offers a priceless opportunity to be accepted into
a member's home and to share a microcosm of life in that country, learning
about the hopes and concerns, daily life and the adventure of getting to
know people of different backgrounds. Travel within your own country
is also possible. Servas members find it refreshing to be a part
of a movement that's non-profit, non-governmental, interracial and interfaith
- no axes to grind, no political or religious criteria to meet, just mutual
acceptance and respect for cross-cultural differences.
Arthur Frommer
honored Servas as the lead organization in his organization's new Hall
of Fame, citing it as the "longest established and most respected free
hospitality organization on earth, and its simple aim is to serve the cause
of world peace by enabling people of varying cultures and outlooks to get
to know and understand one another." |
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The more than 50 members of Servas my wife
Rusty and I have stayed with represent varied backgrounds and cultures,
yet we've felt only the oneness and continuity that transcends individual
differences. For more than three years we were gypsies, traveling
very basically in distant parts of
| the world. We have rented our house
(which meant we had to go somewhere!) and visited most of the year-long
international exchange students we'd hosted for 11 consecutive years.
Another goal was we had was to revisit
some of the youth hostels I'd stayed in during the three months after college
when I toured Europe. Today, this is facilitated by the dropping
of the word youth - it's now Hosteling International. You just have
to be young at heart! We stayed in more than three dozen with furnishing
ranging from a futon on a tatami-mat hostel in Japan, to a lighthouse keeper's
cottage on the California coast, to an 11th century castle in Toledo, Spain.
But much as we relished these experiences,
it was our Servas contacts that enriched our travels most and provided |
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an unforgettable dimension which we continue
to emotionally and intellectually feed on as we relive parts of our odyssey,
daily. How rewarding to find folks with similar interests who open
their homes and their hearts and provide the chance to discuss concerns
about social issues, local and
| international problems and share in routine
chores that made us feel part of the family. Some Servas members
offer companionship during the day - they may have a small apartment but
a big desire to show their city or community. While two day
stays are customary, in some cases the bond is so immediate that the welcome
mat is extended for a longer period.
To be in a strange
country at Christmas can be a lonely time, but a young architect in Buenos
Aires told us she was staying with her fiancé's parents to celebrate
the holiday and made us feel at home in her apartment. During the
next few days we got to know her and her future husband and his parents.
In Brazil, we helped celebrate the birthday of the son of a couple whom
we presented with an Atlanta Braves shirt we'd |
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originally planed to
give to one of our exchange students in Venezuela. We
arrived in Winnipeg, Canada, to find that our hosts were helping Habitat
For Humanity build 25 houses. We stayed several additional
days to participate and thought what a small world it is as we ate one
table away from former president Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter.
For more than a year, we traveled from
México by bus and train through every country in Central and South
America, except the Guyanas. While some countries don't have Servas chapters
yet, in others we met several national Servas officials and were particularly
excited to sample authentic
| home cooking and regional delicacies.
In Asunción, the capital of Paraguay, we stayed in a hotel next
to the train station, awaking each morning to the stoking of a steam engine
that burned aromatic hardwood instead of coal! We frequently stayed
in such budget hotels or pensions until we'd exhausted our sight-seeing,
so that our home-stays with Servas members could be largely devoted to
getting to know them, particularly when we could be with them during a
weekend when they had more free time. We found it particularly rewarding
to stay with members away from large cities and tourist |
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areas - they get fewer travelers but add an
important dimension to the travel experience. Many live on farms and ranches,
secluded cabins or on lakes and beaches.
But even a shop employee's modest apartment
can be rich in the most important remembrance of the trip, the shared experience.
While we were careful to show respect for differing opinions, we found
that with an open mind, curiosity, and tolerance of other views, no topic
was off-limits,
| including religion an politics.
We learned much from in-depth discussions with our hosts, and at the same
time were happy to share our views on our region, country, lifestyle,
etc. Hosts and travelers alike are de-facto ambassadors of their
countries but the best approach is for neither to profess that they're
necessarily an "expert" or "typical"!
We worked hard at learning the fundamentals
of Spanish. How we envied the young people in our class in Quito,
Ecuador, who seemed to soak up the vocabulary, grammar and pronunciation
almost effortlessly. While we developed a basic ability to communicate,
we stayed only with individuals who indicated in their country directory
that they were fluent in |
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English. It's easy to become spoiled
since English is so widely spoken all over the world, but coming from a
one-language culture, you appreciate how many multilingual people take
this communications bonus for granted.
National Servas Directories vary in the
degree of individual host member's background, but all provide a thumbnail
sketch: age, occupation, interests, organizations in which they're involved,
how many people they can accommodate, address and telephone number, directions
if traveling by car,
| bus, train or plane, and amount of advance
notice required to be considered. Also included are the countries
in which the hosts have traveled or lived. Some will take same-day
telephone requests; others prefer a letter. Some hosts offer
special assistance for handicapped travelers or will meet travelers at
the transportation center.
A backpacker sort at heart, I'm accustomed
to covering a limited number of miles a day, savoring the experience.
Poet and writer Gary Snyder wrote about a visit to the interior of Australia,
where he met with an aboriginal wise man. They drove out to a sacred site. |
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Soon after they started, Snyder became aware
of the increasing speed with which the aboriginal man was telling the story
of the site's significance. Faster and faster the man talked until
Snyder could no longer comprehend his tale. Then suddenly, Snyder
understood. It was customary to walk to the site. The old man
sensed he was moving so fast in the car he had to speed up his walking
tale in order to complete it by the time the car arrived.
So it is with a Servas visit. If
you have only a couple of days to spend in Paris and seeing the Louvre
and a night at the Moulan Rouge are your primary goals, don't try to cram
a Servas visit into this tight schedule. Of course, with working
members, you're on your own during the day, but quality time together is
what makes each stay special. And while it's not required, courtesy
suggests that the traveler provide (or perhaps prepare) the main meal on
the second day.
Someone described
the world as a book and those who don't travel read only one page.
Through Servas, everyone can share in this wonderful adventure. Prospective
hosts and travelers can get more information by sending a business-size
stamped and self addressed envelope to: US Servas, Inc. 11 John Street,
Rm 505, New York, NY 10038. Ask for a host or traveler application
(provide departure date if appropriate). Or you can down-load the forms
from the web site: http://www.UsServas.org/.
You'll be asked to provide two letters
of character reference and arrange for an interview to complete the
application. Following the interview and membership processing, you'll
look forward to new horizons as you help to dissolve barriers between people
while having fun and making friends.
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