| Dear Editor,
You can't imagine how much
your magazine have helped me through trying to make my mind on leaving
the U.S. to live abroad. Through it I have found quantities of interesting
articles about what to do, costs of living, how to find a place to live,
etc., etc,.
To tell you the truth, I
think I would have not made up my mind if it wouldn't have been for you
and your magazine. I hope it keeps inspiring people all over the
world as it did inspired me.
I am leaving for Barcelona
next month to take the TEFL course and find a home. I will be back
for my daughter who will be finishing her school year in June to be gone
and hopefully be back here just for a short visit. I really want
to enjoy life, have the time to enjoy nature, my daughter, a good plate
of home-made natural food and to be able to see people walking, chatting,
sitting in a cafe for hours, children making noises.....and the most important
to be able to live a life surrounded by people that love and take pleasure
on taking care of their homes, their gardens and their food by themselves!
Thanks again Charlie.
God bless you,
C.P., USA
Dear Sir,
The Escapeartist website
provides an excellentresource for expats. I wanted to let you know
that a
new non-profit organization
was recently formed which is working to advance the rights of Australians
overseas. The Australian diaspora consists of approximately 820,000
individuals - around 5 percent
of all Australians now live
abroad. There has been a huge brain drain out of Australia in the last
few
years in particular.
While the US government is
now tolerant of dual nationality status, for Australians, the situation
is
not as flexible. Our
citizenship law effectively divides Australians into two classes - those
who may
legally hold dual citizenship
and those who may not. For example, if you migrate to Australia and
are naturalized, you do not have to give up your first nationality, and
will thereafter be a dual national. If you are born in Australia,
with say one foreign parent, you will be Australian by birth, and have
the nationality of your foreign parent by descent. About 5 million
out of 19.3 million Australians legally hold dual citizenship in these
ways.
The big issue is dual nationality
for those starting from a basis of having only Australian nationality.
If we live overseas for
long enough to apply for citizenship somewhere else, then we forfeit
Australian citizenship when
we acquire another.
The Southern Cross Group
has been working hard for over 12 months to get the Australian government
to repeal the offending provision, s. 17 of the Australian Citizenship
Act. A response from the Government is now expected around the end
of April. We hope that the response will embrace full repeal.
Our Group is interested in
hearing from any expat Aussies who are concerned about this issue or any
other. Membership is free. To join our mailing list simply
send an e-mail to info@southern-cross-group.org. Our website at http://southern-cross-group.org
aims to provide a resource for Aussies abroad.
Regards,
Anne MacGregor, CANADA
anne@southern-cross-group.org
Dear Editor:
This is in response to Maura
Madigan's article about living abroad with children. Although living all
over the world CAN be fun, exciting and educational for children, Maura
ignores the possible downsides. Perhaps it's because her child is only
2 years old and she has yet to experience the problems that may not only
arise when the child is of school age, but the possible lingering effects
on the child well after they grow up. I have heard countless tales from
friends of mine who grew up with parents who were foreign service officers,
English teachers, NATO employees, etc. about how they wish things could
have been different. They loved the places they lived in and the exotic
experiences they had, but they longed for friendships that lasted more
than 2 years; they hated always being the new kid in class; they got tired
of the constant changes in curriculum and having to play catch up or slow
down all the time; they wished they knew their grandparents and aunts and
uncles better; they never really felt like they were American, but never
really felt British/Norweigan/Australian either; they don't fit in with
other Americans because they didn't have a lot of the same cultural reference
points; and as adults a lot of them feel permanently "rootless", meaning
that they don't feel like any country will ever be their "home." The only
"group" they feel they fit in with is other expat Americans living abroad.
Remember that you, as an adult, have the choice to live abroad, but your
child has none. And also, you as an adult have a "home" country but you
CHOOSE to be an expat vagabond, whereas your child will grow up as a permanent
expat without that having that "home" country.
Now, I know that some people
think that the idea of kids needing a "group" to fit into is outdated and
clique-ish, but I think Ms. Madigan and others either currently living
abroad or considering it should contemplate this, because their childrens'
social developement and sense of identity is at stake. In sum, All I am
saying is, think about your kids. Don't only think about your wants as
an adult. You may want to live abroad because American culture is boring
and stifling and foreign countries are exotic and interesting, but your
children may really appreciate having a place they can call "home."
Karen Elowitt, USA
dinkydoggie@hotmail.com
Dear Editor,
Talk about taking a trip
down memeory lane. I was stationed at Ft. Kobbe in Panama back in
1988-89 and the time I spent there was wonderful. I envy you very
much, not only becuase you succeeded in moving to Panama, but because I
miss Taboga. I spent a lot of time on the island you know call home
and I find myself wishing that this e-zine would have been available when
I was in the process of getting discharged. it would have been a
big help and I probably would have stayed or moved back sooner. Your
photos of Panama bring back a lot of great memories of the incredible time
I spent there.
Keep up the good work and
if I ever do make it back, you can bet I am going to make a trip to Taboga.
Who knows. Enjoy the weather, the people, the beach and the ocean
you lucky lucky devil.
Sincerely,
Daniel C. Nielsen, USA
dnielsen@conpoint.com
Dear Editor,
My family was moved to the
UK with my husband's employer in the summer of 1999. We lived in
Surrey, outside of London. The employer had sent individuals to work
in the UK, but not a family; and the HR department had no set policy for
establishing a move package. Our package was negotiated for a term of 3
years, and was based on what we could learn about our requirements in a
10 day visit to England. We moved our furnishings, 2 teenage children
and made the transition to expatriate living with great expectations.
Business growth did not occur in Europe as the employer had planned, and
in fact by the time my husband arrived the offices were operating under
severe loss conditions. We were abruptly told during the spring of
2000 that we could not continue our term in the UK. We were packed
and removed from our new home in June of that year. The experience
- while it lasted - was wonderful and challenging. We felt that our
family did an exceptional job of adjusting to a new home and we would have
been very satisfied to stay on for the full three years. Moving back
after just one year, not only cost the employer a small fortune, but cost
us money as well, since we had sold off our home in the US and many of
our furnishings. We had also given away our family pets to avoid
their quarantine in the UK. It was an extreme amount of upheaval
to go through and difficult to experience the stress of re-entry, buying
a house, re-enrolling in schools and all the rest. To make matters
more complicated, the employer has downsized in the US and my husband is
out of a job. His position was eliminated during our stay abroad,
and he worked a short while in another division that ultimately couldn't
support his salary. He is seeking new employment and we would consider
another overseas assignment if it was an option. This time we would
truly know what to negotiate or accept!
As a result of our experience
overseas, I have developed a relocation handbook for American families
planning a first move to the UK. Our family really had no relocation
support in the form of advice - we managed the entire move process on our
own - and made some mistakes along the way. The handbook provides
pre-move planning information and lots of practical advice for settling
into life in the UK after the move. In researching labor statistics
for the UK, I found out that over 100,000 work permits were issued to Americans
in the year 2000. I feel sure that a substantial number of those
families do not get the information they need to really prepare for such
a move. I asked two associates to contribute articles for the handbook,
so it contains various perspectives and insights.
Our book, Moving from the
US to the UK, can be purchased on the Web at: www.ukexpatconnection.com
the email there is BKB@ukexpatconnection.com
I would love to hear from
your staff - your magazine is fascinating, and different from any other
I've seen on the Web.
Sincerely,
Barbara Kessling, USA
bekwoking@yahoo.com
Dear Editor,
Thanks for your reply. I'm
excited to get the hell out of New York City. I need to get back
to
nature and out of the city,
and I think this is the craziest way I can think of to do it. Keep
the roam-fire burning for all of us,
Marc, USA
Dear Editor,
Thank you for cyber-publishing
my article.I think my friends will be checking out your web site.
I will try to persuade them
to subscribe to your excellent service!
Thanks again.
I hope everything for you
is going well.
Mike Sluchinski, SOUTH KOREA
Dear Dr. McElroy,
Thank you again for including
my scribbles in your magazine. I enjoyed reading what I had written as
if it was an article written by someone else and couldn't believe that
it was actually me who came up with such a "good thing". It looks like
one day I may become a featured commentator on life in this country. Who
knows?
Thank you and I hope that
you would be interested in something else from me. Please let me know.
For now I am going to share
with you a comment on my story sent to me from a Polish reader of your
magazine. I don't know whether you collect comments (I do) but this should
be interesting because it is written in different language and what's more
it proves that you are read all over the world.
Thank you again and best
regards.
Almost a writer,
Ryszard, USA
rdzidziu@optonline.net
>Ryszard,
>
> Swietny artykul !
>
> Mam dokladnie takie
samo doswiadczenie z amerykanska sluzba zdrowia. Dodatkowo mysle, ze
wiekszosc tutejszych lekarzy reprezentuje bardzo mierny poziom.
>
> Adrian
Dear EFAM Staff
Hello again good folks; Thanks
for just sending the ezine. I most certainly enjoy your site - what
a breath of fresh air (for a change).... Sooo much fine material
to explore & look into..just top-notch in every respect.. "You deserve
some medals" with Atta Boys pat on back....
Best wishes/regards.ron
Ron, OSA
rutley@iopener.net
Dear Editor,
I began reading this magazine
when you became editor and thoroughly enjoyed your life story. I
was inspired and uplifted to read your thoughts and views, I share them
all and seem to feel very isolated in my desire to travel, live abroad
and escape the American consumerist mentality. Again this month I
was really touched by Maureen's story of living abroad with children.
I had been living in London for almost 2 years when I also returned to
the USA to have my daughter in March 2000. I am really missing my
life abroad and am contemplating a B&B in Chile (where my husband is
from)- any advice on buying property in Chile or advice in general?
Thank you
Ann Marie, USA
gnaaguilar@aol.com
Dr. McElroy,
The response to the article
has been great. I have had ten replies this evening. It must
have just went on line. One couple has already made reservations
for the 25 & 26th of March. The response has been mostly from the US
and Europe. One guy lives in Cyprus and is looking for a summer villa.
I'll keep you informed on
the response. Thanks again, and let me know when you want another
article like the benefits of operating a B&B in Czech.
Ron Winkles, CZECH REPUBLIC
czwinkles@webtv.net
http://community.webtv.net/Czech/B&B/Castles
& Palaces Tour
Dr. McElroy,
I wanted to thank you so
much for the article entitled "Living Abroad with Children: It’s Easier
Than You Think" by Maura Madigan (Volume Three, Number Four). My
husband and I live in Doha, Qatar with our three year old son not far at
all from the UAE where Mrs. Madigan lives and we, too, faced all of the
ignorance and fears and guilt from our friends and families when we decided
several months ago to leave America behind and come here to work.
My husband was offered a fantastic job, tax free, house, car, utilities,
and vacations all paid for and we haven't looked back! We are so
happy here and the people have all been very friendly.
We miss our things in storage,
everyone we love, and our son has had a lot of questions, but we have all
adjusted well. The culture, the city, the food, the experience is
all so great and we plan on having another child while we're living here
as well. I think people assume there are no modern facilities or
that we were coming here to live in a tent out in the desert and ride a
camel to the market, so this article really summed up what life really
is like living in the Middle East especially. I sent the link to
everyone we know back home in the States so they could get a more open
minded view of how we live over here.
Thanks again and as always,
I love reading your magazine!
Sincerely,
Stephanie Crow, QATAR
steffi@the-crows.com
Dr. McElroy,
Mike Sluchinski's article
was heartening, and suggests perhaps that fear is after all the only thing
we need fear in deciding to pick up sticks, and move elsewhere. Ah,
the Great American Diaspora: let's all not forget to send postcards
back to the less venturesome; it's never too late for any of them to take
that first step as well, and who knows what card serves as the prod that
works, eh?
On a personal note, I remember
the editor and I tearing down a one-way street in Los Mochas, Mexico, in
a rented subcompact--of course the laughter was nervous; we were careening
up the street in the wrong direction. And, and, an international
gesture for you, if you don't like it, Mac. Great job on the 'zine,
Chas; keep up the good work, and keep the hearth warm for me.
Most reverently,
Mike Oliva, USA
msoliva2000@yahoo.com
Dear Editor,
I read with amusement, and
perhaps to some extent bemusement, Doug Casey's article (Two Dollars" about
the state of the New Zealand dollar and the blame that has been placed
upon our present government for its weak performance.
While I did not vote for
the parties that are in power, I do not agree with his sentiments that
dismisses the coalition government as being 'socialist' and 'ideologically-driven'.
Certainly, I question the renationalisation of Accident Insurance, but
its other policies simply cancel out the extreme dogma of New Right. If
Doug Casey wasn't so naive he would realise that there are few factors
as to what caused a change in government.
Firstly, much of the country
is now foreign-owned when originally it was NZ-owned, meaning much of the
wealth that is created here ends up offshore, further weakening our dollar.
This huge level of capital outflow reflects our enormous balance of payments
deficit, currently in the vicinity of seven to eight percent of GDP.
Secondly, the previous employment
legislation, the Employment Contracts Act (1991)gave employers the power
to install bargaining agents in place of trade unions. While I believe
that some unions can be greedy, taking away the worker's right to fair
wages and conditions is morally unacceptable.
Thirdly, Casey should have
look at where the modest revenue from the tax increase is going. Not on
social welfare or even schools and hospitals, but to soften the crippling
blow to students in tertiary study and provide some degree of relief to
pensioners, both who have been shafted and betrayed by those who Casey
would no doubt be of party to.
Just remember that the Aussie
dollar has recently sunk to record lows (under US50 cents I gather)and
its economy is in recession too, yet I haven't seen its government enacting
the same policies that our one has.
Jaini Adams, NEW ZEALAND
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