“What
do you do with yourself all day?” Confessions of an American abroad
By Suzan
Haskins
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January 2007
“What
do you do all day?” This is a question often asked of those who have moved
overseas ...
especially
those who are retired.
“I can find
plenty to do when I go on vacation,” one friend confided, “but I’m not
sure I could find enough to keep me busy full-time. I can only read
so many books and drink so many fruity drinks with little umbrellas in
them…”
I still work
for a living. I spend much of my time sitting behind a computer,
researching and writing. I do not live a life of leisure…although
having a maid and a gardener helps immensely. When I lived in the U.S.,
I not only worked full-time, but I spent hours I could have devoted to
“me time” dusting, vacuuming, scrubbing floors, ironing, weeding, or mowing
the lawn.
So even though
I am still working, I have more leisure time now, thanks to the fact that
I now live in Latin America where household help is reliable and inexpensive.
What can you do with yourself if you decide to live overseas? Plenty,
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Busy yourself
socially
Most people
I know who have elected to move to a foreign country find their social
calendar to be busier than ever. I have also been told there are
more cocktail parties per week on any given night in San Miguel de Allende,
Mexico, than there are in Dallas. I don’t know who could track such
a thing, but I’ll bet it isn’t far from the truth. There is a definite
“joie de vivre” among people who move to a foreign country. Most
of them give up watching television and instead elect to spend time talking,
eating, drinking, dancing, or playing cards with friends.
Most people
who decide to move overseas have a reason for doing so. Many want
to live where their dollar (or euro) goes further. Some want to live
where health care and household help costs are affordable. All of
them have one common thread - they are all looking for a better, more fulfilling
way of life.
Within this
group of pleasure seekers, then, there are two types of expats I encounter
most frequently: those who still need some type of income (I fall into
that category) and those who don’t.
For those who
fall into the former category, I have two pieces of advice. If you
want to find work that makes you happy in your new home, don’t go looking
for work at all. Instead, look for your passion. Think about
what excites you and makes you happy, and try to make a business out of
it.
That’s another
important point. If you move overseas, chances are you will not find
employment - you will need to create your own. In most countries
it will be difficult to find legal, gainful employment. That said,
many of my friends are working for local employers…in Mexico, Belize, Costa
Rica, Panama. It can be done, and it usually requires finding a job
that is only suitable for the expat - teaching English, selling real estate
to other expats, consulting, etc.
Look for a
niche to fill
The best course
is to start your own business. Again, my advice is to think about
what you really like to do. If you like history, maybe you’ll start
a local walking tour of historical sites. I know one man who loves
to cook. He now gives authentic Yucatecan cooking classes from his
home in Mérida, Mexico. He has also started exporting gourmet
peanut butter and chocolate that he makes from local ingredients.
Many people
are afraid to go to a new country without a guaranteed source of income.
I understand that, it’s a scary proposition. But if you have enough
money to get by for a time while you look for opportunity, you will find
it.
Reinvent yourself
without completely starting over. This is exactly what I did.
I love to write. I was a professional writer in Nebraska, and I have
now been a professional writer in Ecuador, Mexico, and Panama. The
difference is that while I once wrote advertising and business-to-business
materials, I am now writing about things I enjoy writing about…and doing
it in a place I enjoy. I have “repackaged” myself into a lifestyle
I am happier with.
If you wish
to continue your current line of work in your new home country, there are
a couple of places to start. One is by talking to an immigration
attorney in your new county. Another resource is the American Chamber
of Commerce. You can find a directory of their international branch locations
(in 91 countries) here: www.uschamber.com/international/directory/default.
Two prominent
American Chamber of Commerce groups are in Mexico (see: www.amcham.com.mx/ingles/indexing.php)
and Panama (see: www.panamcham.com).
Research through
these websites to find leads; a contact person who might be looking for
someone with your experience. Another good starting point is to contact
any professional organizations you may belong to. For example, I
am a former ad industry person and therefore contacted PRSA (Public Relations
Society of America) and American Advertising Federation.
There are clubs
and service organizations like the Rotary Club, Lion’s Club, VFW, etc.,
with locations throughout Mexico and Central America. These are also good
sources of information.
Turn your
passion into profit
Maybe you
have no desire to continue in your present line of work. That’s okay,
too. You can figure out a way to turn your hobbies into something
more lucrative. My husband is a musician. When we moved to
Ajijic, a community with lots of foreigners, on the shore of Mexico’s Lake
Chapala, he found himself in great demand as a sax player. Before
long, he was playing regular gigs with Ron Baker, the former guitar player
for Charlie Pride’s band, and Dwayne Blackman, the songwriter behind Garth
Brook’s megahit “I Got Friends in Low Places.” And the drummer for
this little combo? Remember Alan from the original Mickey Mouse Club?
I kid you not. Ok, so this “job” didn’t pay much, but it gave Dan
a little pocket money and all the beer he could drink. Not bad…and
he enjoyed doing it.
So what about
your hobbies? Do you design jewelry? What about turning that
into a business? I have a friend in San Miguel de Allende who designs
leather clothes and belts. He now has a successful boutique where
he showcases his designs as well as jewelry made by another friend. Remember,
you don’t have to run the store, …just approach the shopkeeper and see
if they will take your goods on consignment.
What if you’re
not at all creative? Even though you might not realize it, you no
doubt have a lot to offer. Do you like gardening, for example? Well,
what about a landscaping firm? Enjoy tracing your family’s history?
Perhaps you could provide a service for others who want to do the same.
In fact, consulting businesses can be successful in your new home country.
Many foreign businesses want to learn how to better market themselves to
U.S. and Canadian citizens. Who better to help them than someone
who spent (almost) a lifetime there?
One final note
about finding work overseas, and this relates back to what I mentioned
earlier about looking for opportunity. When you move to a foreign
country, especially if you move to a location with a large foreign community,
you will find many niches that need to be filled. Look around. Think
about what might be missing - service businesses that might be needed in
your new home. Self-storage facilities? Proofreading and editing
services? Secondhand clothing stores? Chances are there are
so many opportunities that you may be hard put to choose just one.
An active
new life as a volunteer
You won’t
be a tourist in your new community. But you will be a foreigner,
so anything you do to help the local community will be a nice reflection
on your fellow countrymen and other foreigners who may visit or live here.
Local newspapers are a good source of information about the volunteer organizations
that exist. Then again, if you see a need, figure out how to fill
it. Your International Living Country Consultants can also help you
find volunteer activities in their respective countries. Ask them
to recommend various organizations that match your interests.
Once you are
on the ground in your new country, other expats will be a great source
of information, too. Ask about opportunities to work in areas you
most enjoy - with children, animals, the environment, etc. In Quito,
I belonged to a group called Damas (Ladies) Norte Americanas. Each
embassy in Ecuador had a branch (Damas Alemanas, Damas Chilenas, etc.).
(Your local embassy can be a good source of information about local volunteer
opportunities, too.) The Damas group I belonged to met once a month
- usually a luncheon with a speaker. Proceeds from the lunch went
to support local charities. Annual events included the Damas Christmas
Bazaar and the Damas Ball, a grand black-tie event.
In Mexico,
too, communities with an expat population will have organizations you can
join…from those that benefit the arts, like “Friends of Chamber Music”
and “Friends of Opera to Feria Maestros del Arte” (www.mexicoetc.com/maestros.html).
To learn about opportunities in San Miguel, see: www.internetsanmiguel.com/charities.html.
Here are
some other places to explore for volunteer opportunities:
International
Volunteer Programs Association, www.volunteerinternational.org. This website
offers a handy way to find activities for nearly every interest in almost
any country in the world.
Directory
on International Voluntary Service, www.avso.org. This site provides links
to volunteer organizations worldwide; hosted by the Association of Voluntary
Service Organizations (based in Belgium).
Action Without
Borders, www.idealist.org. This website’s database serves as a clearinghouse
for more than 46,000 nonprofit organizations worldwide. It features an
outstanding searchable database and includes listings for internships,
volunteering, and jobs, as well as resources for people who work for nonprofits.
The organization also sponsors nonprofit career fairs.
International
Volunteer Programs Association (IVPA), www.volunteerinternational.org.
The website of this U.S.-based nonprofit association features a searchable
database of volunteer-abroad programs.
International
Workcamp Directory (SCI-IVS), www.sci-ivs.org. A good starting point if
you are looking for low-cost, short-term volunteer options, in more than
50 countries.
The Peace
Corps, tel. 800-424-8580; website: www.peacecorps.gov. Peace Corps seeks
individuals to serve as volunteers in overseas communities in the areas
of education, small business development, the environment, health, youth
development, and agriculture. You must be a U.S. citizen, over 18, in good
health, and have education and/or experience relevant to programs.
Serve Your
World, www.serveyourworld.com. This is a free online guide to volunteering
abroad, with excellent interactive resources and many participant reports.
South American
Explorers Volunteer Opportunities, tel. 800-274-0568; website: www.saexplorers.org.
The database of volunteer possibilities is available to members of this
nonprofit organization.
Volunteers
for Peace, www.vfp.org. More than 3,000 low-cost, short-term voluntary
service placements in more than 100 countries.
Here are
some of my favorites:
CARE, www.care.org.
For more than 60 years, this organization has been fighting poverty worldwide
with a special focus on women and children.
Habitat for
Humanity, www.habitat.org. This organization works to provide safe, sturdy
homes for low-income families and individuals.
Smile Train,
www.smiletrain.org. This group provides free surgery around the world for
children with cleft palates.
Indulge
yourself in adventure
There is no
better way to feel reinvigorated than to get your heart pumping with adrenaline…and
perhaps, sheer terror. Have you ever wanted to go whitewater rafting?
Rappelling down a mountain? Scuba diving? Sky diving?
There’s no better time to take the plunge than when you make the move to
your new country. Think of it as the new “adventuresome” you…
Of course,
not everyone is cut out to be Indiana Jones. Maybe golf is more your
speed. You will now find a golf course in just about any country
you might choose to live. That said, it will be more difficult to
tee up in Ecuador than in Mexico or Panama, or even Nicaragua. So
if you are an avid golfer, do your research before you make move.
A good place to start is at: www.worldgolf.com.
If you enjoy
fishing, check out the marinas near your new home. Chances are most
of them will have fishing clubs. The International Fellowship of
Fishing Rotarians is a good starting point. See: www.iffr.homestead.com.
Women will want to check out the International Women Fly Fishers, www.intlwomenflyfishers.org.
Warm waters
beckon divers. My husband and I have been certified divers for many
years - scuba diving is one of our favorite activities. If you, too,
are a diver, or think you’d like to become certified, see: www.PADI.com
to find a dive center near you.
For the even
more adventuresome, see: www.GORP.com. Jaguar tracking in Belize,
bicycling from the Atlantic to the Pacific in Panama, hiking in the Alps,
or whitewater rafting in Costa Rica are just some of the options available
at this website.
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Back
to nature: homeopathy, eco travel, and eco volunteering
A few years
ago, my husband and I led a group of IL readers on a tour in Ecuador called
“Secrets of the Shamans.” This was one of the most enjoyable and rewarding
events I’ve ever been part of. We went into the Amazon basin and stayed
in a jungle village. We ate the local food and learned about the plants
and herbs the village shaman uses to treat various illnesses and maladies.
We also spent some time with highland shamans who practice an entirely
different kind of homeopathy.
This was intriguing
stuff, and if this kind of thing interests you, I urge you to dig a little
deeper.
Latin America,
in particular, is a great place to learn more about natural remedies. Most
are rooted in the rainforests, after all. One place to start is the Centre
for International Ethnomedical Education and Research, www.cieer.org.
For eco-travel opportunities, see: www.ecotravel.com. Just put your home
country into the database and see what comes up. You’ll find opportunities
to travel off the beaten path, to see places most tourists never do, and
you can find volunteer opportunities here, too. Another good resource for
this type of information is Sustainable Travel International, www.sustainabletravelinternational.org.
In Panama,
you can volunteer with the Smithsonian Tropical Research Institute, www.stri.org.
In Costa Rica, you can get free Spanish lessons when you volunteer with
the Global Crossroad Organization, www.globalcrossroad.com/costarica. For
other opportunities in other parts of the world with this organization,
see: www.globalcrossroad.com.
Never want
to work again? Reinvent yourself creatively
If you don’t
need an income, lucky you. You can truly pick and choose how you spend
your days. I’ve already mentioned that socializing will no doubt be a big
part of your daily schedule, but I suspect you’ll be looking for something
a bit more fulfilling.
Wherever you
go, you will find art classes, music lessons, writing workshops, pottery
studios, yoga centers, health clubs… Granted, some of these will be more
accessible in places with an already established foreign community, like
Lake Chapala and San Miguel de Allende in Mexico. And in these places,
you are more apt to find English-speaking instructors, too. But still,
if you look, you will find artists, musicians, and yoga practitioners everywhere
who will be willing to give group or private lessons.
I have one
friend, a retired teacher, who moved to Mexico with her husband. He spends
his days trading options on the Internet. She plays bridge three days a
week and she also volunteers at a local orphanage teaching English. A great
teacher, she has found a way to “repackage” her former career. “I love
it,” she says. “It’s a way I stay in touch with the old me, but in a new
and better way.”
IL’s in-country
help
We’d like
to help you reinvent yourself overseas. We have offices in Ireland, France,
Panama, Nicaragua, Honduras, and representatives who can help with your
queries in Ecuador and Croatia. For more information, see our website at:
www.internationalliving.com.
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