| Allowing the
tears, encouraging emotional expression through the creative arts or physical
exercise, and providing opportunities for family members to share their
hopes and fears support global nomads in releasing their grief. hen grief
is accepted and allowed expression, the many other emotions associated
with transitions, be they joy, fear, hope, anger, or anticipation, also
can be expressed.
World View
People raised
internationally have the opportunity to gain a three-dimensional world
view. For them, international news reports are more than ink on paper;
global nomads associate sights, sounds, smells, and feelings with the locations.
lobal nomads know that people different than them share with them a fundamental
humanness. They understand that truth is relative. They demonstrate
ethical maturity by being able to maintain the paradox between their appreciation
of differing truths in differing contexts and a commitment to a personal
truth.
Global nomads
typically have a high sense of security in their understanding of the world
and a high motivation to affect the international arena. Although
they may not be able to enumerate specific intercultural skills, one of
the advantages of growing up internationally is the opportunity to develop
those skills without conscious effort. Their "birth right" includes
a comfort with ambiguity; an ability to see a situation from several points
of view and to hold inquiry and curiosity in relationship to judgment;
refined observational skills; bi/multi-lingualism; and a capacity for working
effectively with many different people in many different situations.
It is not always
easy to have a multidimensional view of the world, however, especially
if those around you do not. Global nomads may find themselves challenged
by those with less of an international understanding. They may be
perceived as arrogant when speaking of their "exotic" adventures, may face
a confusion of loyalties, and may be accused of lacking conviction.
The reality, however, is typically less a matter of confused loyalty than
a deep understanding of the complexity of the human condition.
Cultural
Identity
Global nomads
inevitably are influenced by multiple cultural traditions. As such, and
particularly when they return to their passport countries, they may experience
themselves as "culturally marginal." They typically will find that
they do not fit into the cultural mainstream of the society that they have
been raised to consider their own. They often find themselves to
be "hidden immigrants" and experience themselves as "terminally unique".
Intercultural
scholar Janet Bennett defines two dimensions of cultural marginality.
On the one hand, it can be "encapsulating" - us in our experience of difference
and making us feel at home nowhere. Conversely, it can be "constructive"
- us to make use of our differences for personal and professional gain
and enabling us to feel at home everywhere.
As with the
experience of "home," it is important that we broaden our definition of
identity. We too often impose limits: US American or Kenyan, British
or Japanese. For many global nomads, nationality will form but one
part of a complex identity influenced also by the host countries in which
they have lived, by the experience of mobility itself, and by a multicultural
heritage forged within one or more international expatriate communities.
Global nomads become constructive in their marginality when they recognize
and understand the multiplicity of their experience and when they have
the language to communicate about it.
Living in
Liminality
As we have
seen, global nomads make up a population whose developmental years are
marked by frequent geographic transitions and multiple cultural influences.
At the heart of this experience is the social-psychological construct of
"liminality."
From the Greek limnos, meaning "threshold,"
liminality describes
an in between time when what was, is no longer, and what will be, is not
yet. It is a time rich with ambiguity, uncertainty, and the possibility
of creative fomentation. How does liminality serve as a connecting
thread in the global nomad experience, weaving its way through each of
the four central themes? And what particular advantages does living
in liminality offer?
Remember first
that one of the defining themes of the internationally mobile childhood
is frequent change. Consider, then, that for every experience of
change - by their own mobility or another's - nomads experience a
parallel process of psychological transition.
William
Bridges has written extensively on the three developmental phases that
compose this internal process: the ending, the neutral zone, and the
new beginning. Movement through each varies from individual to individual.
Different members of the same family, engaged in the same change proc-ess,
may have different transition experiences. It is influenced by the
individual personality, the kind of change precipitating the transition,
and the broader environmental support (or lack thereof) offered the individual
in terms of both the change process and the transition experience.
What Bridges
called the "neutral zone" is what we are calling liminality.
When a person is in liminal space, he or she is on the threshold, no longer
part of the past and not yet part of the new beginning. For many
global nomads and their families, in particular for multi-movers, the experience
of liminal space becomes the most constant, lived experience.
As with change
and transition, liminality also is intertwined closely with the global
nomad themes of relationships, world view, and cultural identity.
For many internationally mobile children and adolescents, relationships
exist primarily in liminal space. They and their friends are forever
on the thresh-old, simultaneously saying goodbye and hello, finding their
own precarious balance between getting close quickly while not getting
too close. At the same time, as members of multinational expatriate
communities, global nomads make friends across race, ethnicity, and language.
Their develop-ing world views become balanced in liminality as they learn
through daily interaction that truth is contextually relative. Liminality
also weaves its way through the global nomad experience of marginal identity.
Indeed, cultural marginality is a quintessentially liminal reality.
Exposed to multiple cultural traditions during their developmental years,
global nomads have the opportunity to achieve identities informed by all,
constricted by none, balanced on the thresholds of each. Liminality,
then, is a construct powerfully resonant for global nomads. Understanding
it encourages them to celebrate their marginality: It is not necessary
to choose between the United States or Kenya, between Japan or the United
Kingdom. Living in liminality en-courages complex, multiplistic perspectives.
Their daily experiences persuade them to think in terms of "both/and" rather
than "either/or." Liminality reinforces that it is a blessing to
be able to "dance in-between," with a foot planted gently in each reality.
Liminality
is the byword of a self-reflexive human being. We all contain within
ourselves multiple intersecting identities - example, nationality, gender,
sexual orientation, ethnicity and race, physicality, native tongue, pro-fession.
In any given moment, one of those identities may be more relevant to us
than others. At the same time, the identities in our backgrounds
continue to make up the whole of who we are. Liminality reminds us
to stand tall at the intersection of our multiple identities, aware of
our contradictions, and proud nonetheless to acknowledge all the facets
of who we are.
Summary
Lee Knefelkamp,
a professor of higher and adult education at Teachers College, Columbia
University, NY, was asked about mobility, cultural marginality, and the
human need for roots. She responded, "Living in the liminal without
a home is different from living in the liminal as a home".
Without a doubt,
living in liminal space, making a home in that intersection of multiple
identities, is more complex than living in a singular reality. It
is also the experience of increasing numbers of people the world over,
not just global nomads. There is, in fact, an immense interest today
in what it means to live within liminal space. Educators, researchers,
and writers; people of mixed race and mixed nationality; scholars in cultural,
multicultural, ethnic, and gender studies are addressing the same question
in their varied ways.
The world in
which we live today is no longer easily defined by "either/-or."
The complexities of an interdependent human community increasingly are
calling us to experience the "both/and," and from that place of ambiguity
and uncertainty to find a sense of home in the in-between. |