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The Global Nomad Experience:
Living in Liminality
By Barbara
F. Schaetti and Sheila J. Ramsey
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October 2006
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nomads are persons of any age or nationality who have lived a significant
part of their developmental years in one or more countries outside their
passport country because of a parent's occupation. Children raised
as global nomads can be the offspring of diplomatic, international business,
government agency, international agency, missionary, or military personnel,
or indeed of people living internationally mobile lives for any professional
reason. Typically, global nomads share a unique cultural heritage.
Risks and
Rewards of an Internationally Mobile Childhood
Significant
research has been conducted during the past 20 years that has revealed
the risks and rewards of an internationally mobile childhood.
The life-long
effects, of course, vary from individual to individual, and many variables
influence the experience. The variables include:
* nationality,
culture of origin, and native tongue;
* degree of
mobility;
* number of
years abroad;
* age at expatriation,
at each subsequent move, and at repatriation;
* sponsor
dynamics and the quality of expatriate services both offered and used;
* family dynamics,
including the family's degree of international under-standing and intercultural
sensitivity;
* type of
schools attended and the degree to which students' cultural transitions
are addressed;
* host-country
cultures and the extent of involvement with them;
* diversity
and degree of involvement with the "expatriate microculture"; and
* timing of
particular moves and pivotal intercultural experiences in light of the
individual's own cognitive and psycho-social development.
Despite the
variables and consequent rich diversity within the global nomad community,
research now clearly substantiates four themes common to all global nomads:
change, relationships, world view, and cultural identity.
Change
Change is
one of the few constants in the lives of internationally mobile children,
whether they are moving themselves or their friends are coming and going
while they remain relatively stable. If only as a survival skill, global
nomads learn to be adaptable and flexible.
It is not uncommon
that they develop a measure of confidence in the process of change, and
perhaps even become so accustomed to change that life without it seems
somehow incomplete. Even those nomads who as adults settle in one
place - conscious decision or otherwise - generate periodic and regular
change in their lives: cyclical jobs, cyclical relationships, or simply
a regular rearranging of household furniture.
A problem often
cited as a by-product of the global nomad experience is a deep sense of
rootlessness. Certainly, global nomads typically find it difficult
to answer the question, "Where are you from?" This question is in
fact the bane of many a person raised between countries and cultures. Articu-lating
an answer is an important part of a global nomad's maturation and is facilitated
when we allow a broader understanding of "home." Typically, home
does not exist for the global nomad as a single place but as a multi-plicity
of relationships; it is not a "here or there" but an "everywhere."
Relationships
Global nomads
typically have extensive experience making and losing friends. They
learn what to say and what to ask so that they can get to know one another
quickly. They also learn how not to get too close-how much distance
to keep so that when a relationship ends, as their experi-ence tells them
it has and will, it does not hurt too much. Both the ability to make
friends and the tendency to enforce a certain distance are global no-mad
survival skills.
Grief is associated
intimately with global nomad relationships. Parents often try to
reassure their children that they will find friends in the new location
and will settle down and feel at home once again. This is true, of
course. However, when these children feel sadness, they do not need
the assurance of future joy but a recognition of the current reality.
Allowing the tears, encouraging emotional expression through the creative
arts or physical exercise, and providing opportunities for family members
to share their hopes and fears support global nomads in releasing their
grief. hen grief is accepted and allowed expression, the many other emotions
associated with transitions, be they joy, fear, hope, anger, or anticipation,
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World View
People raised
internationally have the opportunity to gain a three-dimensional world
view. For them, international news reports are more than ink on paper;
global nomads associate sights, sounds, smells, and feelings with the locations.
lobal nomads know that people different than them share with them a fundamental
humanness. They understand that truth is relative. They demonstrate
ethical maturity by being able to maintain the paradox between their appreciation
of differing truths in differing contexts and a commitment to a personal
truth.
Global nomads
typically have a high sense of security in their understanding of the world
and a high motivation to affect the international arena. Although
they may not be able to enumerate specific intercultural skills, one of
the advantages of growing up internationally is the opportunity to develop
those skills without conscious effort. Their "birth right" includes
a comfort with ambiguity; an ability to see a situation from several points
of view and to hold inquiry and curiosity in relationship to judgment;
refined observational skills; bi/multi-lingualism; and a capacity for working
effectively with many different people in many different situations.
It is not always
easy to have a multidimensional view of the world, however, especially
if those around you do not. Global nomads may find themselves challenged
by those with less of an international understanding. They may be
perceived as arrogant when speaking of their "exotic" adventures, may face
a confusion of loyalties, and may be accused of lacking conviction.
The reality, however, is typically less a matter of confused loyalty than
a deep understanding of the complexity of the human condition.
Cultural
Identity
Global nomads
inevitably are influenced by multiple cultural traditions. As such, and
particularly when they return to their passport countries, they may experience
themselves as "culturally marginal." They typically will find that
they do not fit into the cultural mainstream of the society that they have
been raised to consider their own. They often find themselves to
be "hidden immigrants" and experience themselves as "terminally unique."
Intercultural
scholar Janet Bennett defines two dimensions of cultural marginality.
On the one hand, it can be "encapsulating" - us in our experience of difference
and making us feel at home nowhere. Conversely, it can be "constructive"
- us to make use of our differences for personal and professional gain
and enabling us to feel at home everywhere.
As with the
experience of "home," it is important that we broaden our definition of
identity. We too often impose limits: US American or Kenyan, British
or Japanese. For many global nomads, nationality will form but one
part of a complex identity influenced also by the host countries in which
they have lived, by the experience of mobility itself, and by a multicultural
heritage forged within one or more international expatriate communities.
Global nomads become constructive in their marginality when they recognize
and understand the multiplicity of their experience and when they have
the language to communicate about it.
Living in
Liminality
As we have
seen, global nomads make up a population whose developmental years are
marked by frequent geographic transitions and multiple cultural influences.
At the heart of this experience is the social-psychological construct of
"liminality." From the Greek limnos, meaning "threshold," liminality
describes an in between time when what was, is no longer, and what will
be, is not yet. It is a time rich with ambiguity, uncertainty, and
the possibility of creative fomentation. How does liminality serve
as a connecting thread in the global nomad experience, weaving its way
through each of the four central themes? And what particular advantages
does living in liminality offer?
Remember first
that one of the defining themes of the internationally mobile childhood
is frequent change. Consider, then, that for every experience of
change - by their own mobility or another's - nomads experience a
parallel process of psychological transition.
William Bridges
has written extensively on the three developmental phases that compose
this internal process: the ending, the neutral zone, and the new beginning.
Movement through each varies from individual to individual. Different members
of the same family, engaged in the same change proc-ess, may have different
transition experiences. It is influenced by the individual personality,
the kind of change precipitating the transition, and the broader environmental
support (or lack thereof) offered the individual in terms of both the change
process and the transition experience.
What Bridges
called the "neutral zone" is what we are calling liminality. When
a person is in liminal space, he or she is on the threshold, no longer
part of the past and not yet part of the new beginning. For many
global nomads and their families, in particular for multi-movers, the experience
of liminal space becomes the most constant, lived experience.
As with change
and transition, liminality also is intertwined closely with the global
nomad themes of relationships, world view, and cultural identity.
For many internationally mobile children and adolescents, relationships
exist primarily in liminal space. They and their friends are forever
on the thresh-old, simultaneously saying goodbye and hello, finding their
own precarious balance between getting close quickly while not getting
too close. At the same time, as members of multinational expatriate
communities, global nomads make friends across race, ethnicity, and language.
Their develop-ing world views become balanced in liminality as they learn
through daily interaction that truth is contextually relative. Liminality
also weaves its way through the global nomad experience of marginal identity.
Indeed, cultural marginality is a quintessentially liminal reality.
Exposed to multiple cultural traditions during their developmental years,
global nomads have the opportunity to achieve identities informed by all,
constricted by none, balanced on the thresholds of each. Liminality,
then, is a construct powerfully resonant for global nomads. Understanding
it encourages them to celebrate their marginality: It is not necessary
to choose between the United States or Kenya, between Japan or the United
Kingdom. Living in liminality en-courages complex, multiplistic perspectives.
Their daily experiences persuade them to think in terms of "both/and" rather
than "either/or." Liminality reinforces that it is a blessing to
be able to "dance in-between," with a foot planted gently in each reality.
Liminality
is the byword of a self-reflexive human being. We all contain within
ourselves multiple intersecting identities - example, nationality, gender,
sexual orientation, ethnicity and race, physicality, native tongue, pro-fession.
In any given moment, one of those identities may be more relevant to us
than others. At the same time, the identities in our backgrounds
continue to make up the whole of who we are. Liminality reminds us
to stand tall at the intersection of our multiple identities, aware of
our contradictions, and proud nonetheless to acknowledge all the facets
of who we are.
Summary
Lee Knefelkamp,
a professor of higher and adult education at Teachers College, Columbia
University, NY, was asked about mobility, cultural marginality, and the
human need for roots. She responded, "Living in the liminal without
a home is different from living in the liminal as a home."
Without a doubt,
living in liminal space, making a home in that intersection of multiple
identities, is more complex than living in a singular reality. It
is also the experience of increasing numbers of people the world over,
not just global nomads. There is, in fact, an immense interest today
in what it means to live within liminal space. Educators, researchers,
and writers; people of mixed race and mixed nationality; scholars in cultural,
multicultural, ethnic, and gender studies are addressing the same question
in their varied ways.
The world in
which we live today is no longer easily defined by "either/-or."
The complexities of an interdependent human community increasingly are
calling us to experience the "both/and," and from that place of ambiguity
and uncertainty to find a sense of home in the in-between.
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Reproduced
with the permission of the Employee Relocation Council ( www.erc.org
)from the September
1999 issue of Mobility.
The authors
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