Bermuda as a country is a very strange place also.  It exists in a twilight zone, a country with a fierce resistance to change.  On one hand as a God fearing country and on the other, so obviously in denial about itself and how visitors view it.  Homosexuals have no rights yet it's common knowledge that a fair few government members and population are homosexuals or have had homosexual experiences. Which is absolutely fine, but why present such outrage about it.  It is a hypocritical country where there is a church on every corner, yet infidelity is rife.  Because it is a small island, it has the gossipy mentality of a small village, where, literally everybody does know your business.  If they don't they are creative enough to make it up.  I found this particularly unbearable, especially from first hand 
experience. 

If you are not an outdoorsy person, there is very little to do here and subsequently people find their pleasure through drink.  Especially during the winter months.  I have met a fair few people who have ended up alcoholics.

Because of this or despite of this, I have some good laughs here, have met some lovely people.  The beaches are outstanding.  The men can charm the birds off the trees, and this is where a lot of ex-pat girls fall by the wayside. Under the misguided impression that you are "their only true love".   The majority of Bermudian men have their own wives/girlfriends on the side and a few in between!   I know of a couple who almost got it together until they were told that they actually had the same father!!!  I know of another who managed to sire three children by three different women in the space of a year. 

At the moment the government are debating whether to go independent from UK.  Forgetting that if this were to happen they would lose about 60% of ex-pat businesses, if not more.  Talk about biting the hand that feeds you.  Bermuda needs ex-pats but at the same time they do practically everything in their power to put you off coming here. There have been so many barriers put up to ex-pats, with companies actively discouraging ex-pats from applying for jobs, immigration taking over a year to process applications and now the introduction of the six-year rule where no ex-pat is allowed to stay longer than six-years unless they can otherwise prove that they are vital to their job or that a Bermudian can't do the job. 

Like Ms Kinsella I can see some of the positive of the country, but that is being far outweighted by the negatives.  I tell things as I honestly see them.  I am an observer so I watch and listen carefully.
It doesn't take an idiot to figure out that there is "trouble in paradise", and at the present time, I too, would not recommend a place like Bermuda. 
Holly
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As a fullborn Norwegian I truthfully regret the inconvenience that Karen Southall Watts experienced while trying to work and live in Norway.  I am happy that she still considers Norway a positive country.  But I am indeed very surprised that the company and the locals didn't take more care of her.
Seems to me that they totally lacked understanding how it is for a family to  move from one country to another, and hence to a small village.  But, on the other hand, as a North-Norwegian I can understand the lack of hospitality.  I regret to say that the understanding of taking care of strangers (read: foreigners) isn't exactly up in the day.  This is  mostly due to the tradition of the peasant communities in the western fjords and the fact that they in the past used to be kind of stranded communities without much contact with others - mostly due to the high mountains and long distances between settlements.

As an explanation may I add this?
I have met some Americans living in Tromsoe, the capital on the northern Norway.  Most of them do not want to return to the States after working there for some years (mostly at the University of Tromsoe).  In fact, many marry Norwegians and settle down for good.  North-Norway is well-known for its hospitality towards "strangers".
The motto: "You shall never feel alone" is real law up there.
I have, on the other hand, lived in many places in the western part of Norway and I cannot say that there is much hospitality.  In small communities they almost lack empathy towards those "from the outside world", being other Norwegians or foreigners.  Ref. the old peasant communities of Norway. Very exotic communities, but also VERY difficult to penetrate unless you are really struggling to get yourself into the inside.

By the way: I have emigrated myself.  Well, not because I dislike Norway, merely because I want to see other parts of the world before I "put the phone down for good".  I now live in Thailand and have had similar experiences, but I stayed on and tried to cope with it.  After some months everything changed.  Now I like Thailand.  I like the strange culture and accept all the odd things that happen to me during a week.  I simply have learned to laugh and take it easy and not stress so much.  Had to, because in Thailand 12 noon means everything between 10am to 4 pm.

Give my regards to Mrs. Karen Southall Watts. Hope she will go to a Norwegian city next time. That's where the urbans are.  :-) 
Kindly regards
Mr. Eivind Trana,
Bangkok

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