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This isn't the first time I've been invited to one of these Saturday brunch hot pot parties. Last term it was the English Department students. They pick 10 a.m. as the start time. But that seems to mean, be sure you're awake and out of bed by ten. Early birds might arrive at the campus gate, a few dorm mates, and start walking at 10. The remainder straggle in groups of threes and fours, in procession down the mile-long road to town. On the way
to the bank we stopped at the restaurant. By now it was about 10:45.
A student, Tsering Dendrup, was leaning on the door frame talking into
his cell phone. The place was empty. He was one of the students leaving
after this term. During the dinner he would assume the roll of toastmaster.
I wanted to withdraw a thousand yuan (or 'kwai', bucks), so I wouldn't have to go through this again for at least a month. But the students were withdrawing amounts like 50, and 100. I felt self conscious miming "yi chien" (one thousand). So I compromised, and requested 400. That seemed less ostentatious. After all, the people standing closest to the window feel they have to help in this process, so the echo of my mimed 'suh kwai' (four hundred) rises up from three or four different throats. Like, let the whole world know, why don't you! Hasn't anyone ever heard the word 'discreet'? What, you expect privacy when you go to a bank? No, this was not the day to take out a thousand kwai. If I want 'discreet' I'll come when the students are in class and the bank is empty. Twice a year,
a group of vendors swoop down on Guza for a few weeks to sell their wares.
They put up tents in an empty lot that is at the dead end of a little side
street. Guza is a one street town, so the side streets are very short,
and usually end up in a school or a condominium courtyard. This street,
however, where the bank is, seems to end at a pair of brick columns.
Twice a year you can walk through those columns and enter an intriguing
bazaar. It is a great diversion for this sleepy little school town.
Through the tents, awnings and overgrown garden shrubs you can glimpse
on three sides long low brick buildings in various stages of disrepair.
We watched this artisan for a while, before drifting on into the bazaar. I kept thinking we should get to the restaurant, that one guy standing there must be getting impatient, and the guys we passed on the road, where were they? But the girls were totally relaxed, enjoying themselves. I asked the girl nearest me, "uh luh ma?" (are you hungry). She said not. Well then, no hurry for lunch, I thought. After drifting around the maze of tables of wares in a timeless bubble of a warm Spring morning, the tide changed and suddenly we were all headed out, back to the main street. As we neared the columns Tsering Ji, one of my more advanced students, said to me, "Sherab Drolma eez hongry. Let's go." We got back to the restaurant. There were maybe three people already sitting, nibbling on the sunflower seeds in the condiment dish, a light covering of shells at their feet. The room filled
quickly. I noticed their Tibetan literature teacher, seated at another
table. The class monitor, Gunga Tsewang, came up to Tsering Ji and
me to chat. He told me that he had come to my room Friday night,
but I wasn't home. I was puzzled. I was indeed home, watching
a movie with an English Department student. We had the lights out,
but I know the glow from the TV screen lights up the curtain. He
and Tsering Ji saw the drawn curtain and no lights on, and thought I wasn't
home. I simply hadn't heard them; they were quiet as mice, rather
unusual for Tibetans. So there was my invitation from the monitor,
delivered but not received.
On a visit
to Xi'an last year friends took me to a Mongolian hot pot restaurant.
I rather enjoyed that experience. Each person had a bowl with tahini,
sesame paste. A series of condiment dishes went around the table,
so that each person could personalize the taste in his bowl with such as
cilantro, garlic, hot sauce, chives and more. The broth was tasty,
with dates floating in one side and just a few red peppers in the other.
The waiters brought dishes of raw food ordered by the guests. There
was a lot of thinly sliced curled goat meat, yang rou, beef, niu rou, and
a great assortment of vegetables and long stemmed button top mushrooms.
There were clear noodles, or fen si.
The bowl in front of each diner has no tongue soothing tahini. The waitress pours oil from a jug over the la jiao paste that fills the bottom. The food fished from the bubbling broth is stanched in this oil before eating. The bones and grizzle of the hacked pig or chicken are dropped onto the floor, either directly from the bowl or from the mouth. The floor grows cluttered and greasy. The luncheon was typical. The boys drank beer, the girls drank Sprite and Coke, and tea was plentiful. The boys offered each other cigarettes. One by one tables took turns as the boys stood and toasted each other. We had no guys at our table, so they had to come one by one and toast us. In this triglot environment, where the students easily shift between Mandarin, Sichuan, and the Khampa dialect of Tibetan, I could only guess at the intent of these toasts. I had my digital camera with me, having learned that these students fondly collect pictures of themselves with their friends. As I moved from table to table I stepped gingerly. It was like walking across a frozen pond slipping on chunks of slush. Then the singing started. Oh, and can this class sing! Both boys and girls regaled us. I hadn't heard the girls sing before, a special treat. They sang their Tibetan songs, singing about mother, friendship, and the wild freedom of the mountains, ululating in clear ringing tones. Some songs were in Tibetan, while others were in Chinese with Tibetan melody and theme. As the dinner progressed I steered the conversation towards the reason for this fete. Listening through the usual vagaries and unknown vocabulary, I gleaned that it was to honor the seven classmates who would be leaving at the end of this term, to enter the teaching jobs awaiting them in their home villages. Tsering Dendrup, Sherab Drolma and the other five gathered for a group picture, and I felt the weight of loss. I had promised the English Department to give a lecture at 3:00. It was already advertised, people had stopped me all morning both on campus and in Guza saying they were looking forward to my talk. Sitting at the restaurant I kept eye on the time. I had promised Mr. Yang, from the English Department, to meet him at the lecture hall at 2:30 to make sure the overhead projector and mike were working. Finally at 1:30, although no one was making a move to leave, I forced myself to begin saying goodbyes and inching towards the door. An entourage grew, as students walked with me to a taxi and saw me off. I had to rush to get home, heat the iron to touch up my dress, change and arrive out of breath at 2:40 to the lecture hall. No one noticed that I was late. The hall was already filling. At the end of the day, back home at last, I plugged my digital camera into the computer and savored the photos, as my tongue gingerly touched a blistered palate. The article below is the first article that Santina wrote for the magazine:
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