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Under Italian law, working mothers have paid maternity leave for the first six months of a child's life. For ages six months to two years, there are good daycare centers, partially government- subsidized. Unfortunately, there had been a decline in births in Milan which had led to many of these public asili nidi being closed. Then there was a sudden rise in the birthrate around the year of Ross' birth, so when we arrived in Milan, mid-year, there was no space available in the local asilo nido. My in-laws kindly paid for a good private asilo, where Ross very happily stayed for two years; the catch was that it was a long way across town by bus, so it was quite a trek every day to get her there and back again. It was a financial and commuting relief when, at age three, Ross was able to transfer to the nearby pre-school. Scuola materna
is a wonderful thing. In Italy, every parent has the right - though not
the obligation - to put their child in preschool, free of charge, for three
years, until they begin first grade in their sixth year. Traditionally,
this seems to have been regarded as a way to socialize kids to life outside
the family, but the schoolday was kept short, on the assumption that mom
was home anyway. Nowdays, in many families both parents work, so most scuole
materne offer full-time hours up to 4 pm, and after-school programs for
parents who can't pick up their kids that early. Essentially, this is very
high quality, state-sponsored daycare.
They weren't expected to learn to read or write, but they did many pre-reading and pre-math activities, construction and art projects, and more - Montessori methods were very much in evidence! They could be as messy as they liked outside with sand, flour, dirt, and rocks. The bathroom was designed for water play as well as other uses. They decorated their spaces with trees made of cloth, and their own paintings and other creations. For one project, parents were asked to show the kids around their workplaces, which included a car repair shop and a bakery. Afterwards, the teachers interviewed the kids about what it meant to work, and wrote down the answers, such as: "Work means sweating a lot." "No one likes to work, but if you don't work, you starve." As preparation
for the passage to elementary school, the kids visited elementary classes
to see what the older kids were doing, and afterwards were interviewed
about what it means to "get big."
It seemed that many parents were more concerned about this aspect of their child's education than any other. The teachers would furnish daily reports on how well the child had eaten, and there was a parents' committee to oversee the kitchen. Several times we were called upon to sign petitions protesting this or that aspect of the kids' diets. (After four years of legendarily bad food at Woodstock, and seeing that Ross ate more at school than she did at home, I had a hard time taking these seriously.) Every day when I picked up Ross from school, I'd hear the other mothers greeting their children. Invariably, the first question every mother asked was: "What did you eat today?" Just as invariably, my first question to Rossella was: "What did you do today?" And Ross would promptly tell me - what she had eaten. To contact Deirdré Click Here To see her
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