| The Writing
Women Of Bangkok |
| A Women's
Writing Club In Bangkok |
| By Robin Sparks |
| Why do
farang females gather in a dimly lit basement of the Old Dutch Pub in Soi
Cowboy, an area renowned for its girly bars? And what do the women
- teachers, musicians, sales reps, humanitarian aid workers, students,
television producers, and business owners from more than a dozen countries
- have in common apart from the fact that they all live in Bangkok? Every
other Wednesday night between 7 and 9PM, the Bangkok Women's Writing Group
convenes at the Old Dutch Pub on Sukhumvit, Soi 23 to share what they have
written and to reconnect socially as women who live in a testosterone-weighted
city. The female scribes write poetry, children's books, erotica, novels,
memoirs, personal essays, and screenplays. No previous experience is required
to join apart from a passion for writing and a desire to share it with
like-minded women. |
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| Chloe,
from Australia, says, "I moved to Bangkok from Japan 18 months ago.
I looked around for a way to connect with creative women who liked to write,
but found nothing. So I started my own group, and that was the beginning
of the Bangkok Women's Writing Group." Since then over 70 women have signed
up, although only five to 15 women attend each meeting.
Group member,
Jessica says, "For anyone looking for mentoring, creative inspiration,
and estrogen, this is it. There's no pretense here. Each meeting is flavored
like a different dish depending on who shows up." She adds, "The best part
is that this isn't the typical expat women's group where everyone sits
around bitching and ranting. These are women you would seek out no matter
where you live. They make a difference in their lives by doing something
and by having a creative point of view... Kudos to Chloe for continuing
to provide an outlet for the muse."
Another
member, Diane from Canada, says, "The Bangkok Women's Writing Group
is an amazing venue in which to share our writings - some of them emotional
and personal - in a non-threatening, caring, respectful, and open environment. |
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I was a bit nervous to share what I write with strangers.
It's like wearing
my soul on my sleeve, but because the women make me feel warm and welcome,
it's a joy.I've learned an incredible amount from these women who come
from so many countries and backgrounds. Before I joined, I didn't have
many female friends in Bangkok. Most of my colleagues are men, so finding
these women was refreshing. My mind and my soul feel lighter and clearer
each time we meet. "
The meeting
tonight commences with each woman introducing herself and telling the group
how she ended up in Bangkok. Cyndee from Manitoba, Canada goes first,"After
I finished my teaching degree, I got off the farm(group laughter)and headed
for Bangkok and beyond. Im here tonight because I like to write." And so
on as we circle around the room and each woman tells her story. |
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| Members bring
copies of something they have written to share. Some read aloud and some
come to listen.
Nova Scotia
native, Lois, reads a poem about "home"
The author
is a former medical student who one day realized that a doctor was
not what she wanted to be and Canada not where she wanted to live. The
following Sunday night, I bumped into Lois at O'Reilly's Pub. Her Japanese
boyfriend plays main fiddle in the Irish band at the popular Silom bar
every Sunday night, while Lois leaps, arms crossed behind her back, legs
ablur, feet rapidly kicking the floor and propelling her into the air.
She learned the Irish jig on her native island and has found a home for
it in Bangkok.
One of the
women in the group crouches in the furthest, darkest recess of the couch.
Chloe asks Ani if she has brought something to read. The young Englishwoman
stammers, "Oh I don't know. I brought a few pieces, but they are mostly
rubbish." The group begs, and she relents, but is too shy to
read, so hands them off for someone else to read aloud. |
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| Friday
night at the Shock Club: If Ani had not approached me, I wouldn't have
recognized her. Because the demure librarian from the writing group had
morphed into a sexy vixen, minus eyeglasses, plus cleavage. She tossed
back her long raven hair as she laughed with friends and passed around
a bottle of Jack Black.
Another member
of the group, Cyndee, a Canadian with a soft, pale air, is a master of
locution-words leaving her mouth take on a life of their own.
One moment
Cyndee is wistful dreamer, the next, a tiger with a roar. I was not surprised
when I saw Cyndee at About Cafe the following evening. (Even in major
cities like Bangkok, expats tend to gather in the same places.) At
the poetry reading, video art, music, movement, and words intertwined
in a space cumbrous with creative energy and cigarette smoke. |
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When the mike
was opened to the audience, I said to Cyndee, "You must read."
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"Well, I did
bring something - it's in my bag," she replied.
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"Go ahead then."
I urged.
Cyndee gulped
down a couple of glasses of sherry and approached the mike, her knees
trembling, and the paper in her hand rattling. She delivered the first
two lines of her poem in a purr. But as she painted a picture of desire
unrequited, the words emerged from deep in her gut and spilled into every
corner of the room. All periphery conversation stopped.
Cyndee finished
softly, with prolonged pauses in all the right places. The crowd hooted
and applauded. She stumbled over to where three of us from the Bangkok
Women's Writing Group waited like proud stage moms to give her a hug.
When the
meeting is adjourned tonight, a few of us stick around to chat about
our nomadic lifestyles, about men, and about where we as western women
fit in in the macho metropolis of Bangkok.
Only when the
restaurant staff begins to dim the lights and sweep up around us, do we,
the writing women of Bangkok, disperse into the night.
(To join Bangkok
Women's Writing Group call Chloe at 023328252 #1006/1107. Or email her
at funnygirl682000@yahoo.com.au
Meetings
take place every second Wednesday from 7-9PM at the Old Dutch Pub on Sukhumvit
Soi 23, near BTS Asoke.)
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