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A Reader
Moves Her Elderly Parents to Panama
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Dear Editor,
In the past
year I visited Panama a few times and finally, in May, I took my elderly
parents there to live. I kept our apartment here in NYC and was coming
back to pack up and move there after I found them someplace to stay in
Panama City. After four weeks, my mother told me she didn't like
Panama. I didn't argue with her as becoming an expat is a big decision
and one I wasn't going to force upon her. A week later we left and
came home to NYC. Thank goodness I hadn't gotten rid of the apartment
before we left. It had been our intention to do so.
I like Panama
City, but to be honest, it's not where I'd like to live. I live in
NYC and I'm a big city person. PC has many amenities like shopping,
good restaurants and good medical care, but it's still a very small and
limited city. I like big cities.
My mother hated
the third world aspects of Panama City and there are many. Broken
sidewalks, a dirty look to many parts of the city, less English being spoken
than she’d heard. She liked the shopping malls, the really good restaurants
and our hotel with its gorgeous outdoor pool, a resort in the middle of
the city. But we weren't going to be living like that....
We both loved
the hot and humid weather although I couldn't wear my hair down once in
the five weeks we were there. Although it was hot and humid, I was
able to comfortably walk for a mile or two on a lot of days, something
I can't do on those kinds of days here in NYC. Panama City has much
less pollution.
I also didn't
care for the many American expats I met in PC. They seemed so dissatisfied
and grumpy, lots of late middle aged, early old aged people who seemed
to complain about everything in Panama. I wondered why they were
there.
As I planned
to move to Panama City, I didn't really explore much outside. I figured
I'd do that when we got settled. I have to go back just to go outside
the city to see the country of Panama.
Panama City
is not a bad place to be, but it just didn't excite me. I loved that
there are some very good restaurants at really moderate prices by comparison
with NYC. I like the excellent supermarkets and even the malls.
I don't have malls here in NYC so I enjoy checking them out when I go to
LA or NJ. Taxis are plentiful and really cheap. The people
are extremely kind and very nice to the elderly. Everyone helped
me with getting my dad across the street in his wheelchair or getting him
in and out of cabs. They're just so sweet.
I loved spending
so much time in a nice hotel in the middle of the city with a great pool
that was surrounded by trees for a fraction of the cost of the Caribbean.
I loved having four or five tropical fruits offered at the breakfast buffet
included in the price of our already moderately priced hotel. There
are a number of casinos as well, but they seemed pretty uninteresting to
me. It wasn't like Las Vegas.
I don't think
I'll be moving to Panama...
I plan to go
to Buenos Aires some time in the winter, depending on my family situation,
perhaps to spend a month or so. I loved BA when I was there years
ago. I've dreamt of spending more time there for years and suffered
through the many upheavals it went through. I wasn't sure I'd ever
be able to go back and now it's bustling again.
Warm regards,
“Andrea” in
NYC
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Dreaming
of The Perfect Place
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Dear Editor,
I've dreamed
of having a thousand acre ranch in the wilderness about twenty minutes
from Paris and ten minutes outside of New York City. It's a good
dream. I want to be totally isolated, raise Nubian goats, read in
peace and listen to Kronos or Jobim on my stereo without hearing car alarms,
rock and roll, or the hum of auto traffic in the background. And
when I leave my refuge, with it's view of the ocean, I want to drive into
Manhattan and have dinner, visit the Museum of Modern Art and go to the
opera without hitting a traffic light or a traffic jam and still be back
home in time to have a quiet drink of Cuban Rum and a good cigar before
midnight.
Anonymous
Let me know
when you find this place! - Editor
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An
Former Expat Returns to Brazil on holiday – and How About That Cape Verde?
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Dear Editor,
After high
school several friends and I thought we had found our bliss in Brazil.
We were teenagers dreaming of avoiding the rat race and at the time (1991)
Brazil was an amazing place. International tourism outside of Rio
de Janeiro was still a very new phenomenon. The rat race caught up
with us, and I have watched Brazil from afar over the years become the
country described in EscapeArtist.com. I took my wife and children to Brazil
two years ago and, while we had a wonderful time, it was clear that many
places I remember fondly (Fortaleza being one of them) had become the beat
of horny old men on sex holidays.
Of my old friends
from so long ago, one has discovered an interesting place to call home:
Cape Verde. He runs a bar/restaurant/night club in the capital, Praia.
Ever thought of putting it on your list of places to explore?
“Charles”
Dear Robin,
After 3 months
of searching I found a place I could live in for a long time. It's Patnem
beach just 3k south of Palolem, on Goa's coast. I met a German woman and
we live in a place called Saibee village. It's 5 minute walk to my favourite
bar, half way down the beach, from my room, which is 10 meters from the
ocean. There's 7 people in my hotel (more like a motel, 6 rooms in a row
with adjoining balconies), 3 German women, a French couple, he just turned
70, an Englishman, 35, who is on disability pension, although i can't figure
out why. They've all been coming here for up to 11 years.
It's a very
interesting group of people, none with an excess of money, but all get
by comfortably and enjoy each others company and being social. There's
a real community here and you get to know a lot of 6-monthers ( most are
here for 6 months then back home for 6 months, mostly Europeans, mostly
German and French).
At night there's
a group of jazz musicians jamming at one of the restaurant and tonight
there's a 5-man hand drumming group on the beach after dark. Many musicians
everywhere and I've still got the motorbike so I can go anywhere.
I visited Agonda
Beach - great, very quiet, because most of the tourist have returned home.
On the way there I stopped at a little bike shop to check on buying a bike
for next year and got offered a job. Very nice man, maybe when i
return I'll work for him a few days a week and bring in mountain bikes
to sell to the westerners.
Goa is the
best place I've ever been - for a place to settle for 6 months this is
it. It's not worth living here from May till Nov., monsoons and high
humidity and temperature. I would live here in Patnem, and make side trips
to more Indian parts of the country. It's a very fascinating country.
I will come
back here next year for 6 months. This may be the place i've been looking
for. I've decided to return to Canada sooner than I wanted to, my sister
is having heart problems and I need to be nearer to her. So I leave Asia
around mid March and will move to Ottawa for the summer. So I guess this
means I won’t make it to Istanbul this year. See you next year in India?
“Richard”
From the
editor: Last month “Richard” was killed in a head on car collision in Canada
while visiting his sister. He was an amazing man of wonder, acceptance
and love. He affected all of those he met in the international travel crowd
with his kindness and intelligence. “Richard” lived for the moment and
he loved life. I suggest that you let him be your guide as he has been
mine. Live and travel now. While you can.
From the Editor:
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